Sleepless

Having come back from meeting the person who loves you the most does not guarantee a sound sleep. Thoughts of anger, discontent, hatred, revenge occupy the mind of a heart over burdened with social obligations. The troubled mind tries to take solace in the mechanical joys of the numerous apps android phones provides these days; fails. He tries to intensely make false love with the object of false promises;fails. 

Still he can't love the reciprocation of the most love showered to him.

What do he do? He has long not had a good sleep.

He wants to increase his love in reciprocation. But he can't be steady. 

A Common Principle

Happy ramadan to all !

Both Ramadan & Shravan (holy month for hindus) starts around same time. My logic tells me, it's something special about the time, which is holy. We are all following a common law of nature. Giving it a different name and creating all the misunderstanding.

I have another analogy to share with the readers.

 All the religion chants GODs names, on rosary, tulasi, rudraksh or the tasbi. The principle is the sound vibration. Again a Common law of nature. Even from the biological perspective, laws of nature are common. We are all entitled for a similar course for a particular disease.

Bringing my these few examples to a conclusive end. 

If the laws of Nature are so much in common, how can THE CREATOR be different for each religion ? 

Everything is coming from a single source.

There is just one GOD.

Don't want to get hurt.

This dialogue is from the movie Hercules.

M: "Sometimes, it's better to be alone." H: "What do you mean?" M: "Because nobody can hurt you."

Hence some people choose to be alone, may be. Getting our hearts broken is so painful ! Worse, it leaves a strong impression on our memory, erasing which takes a toll.

Opposites

Love is so short, forgetting is so long.


Do you agree ?

Ever loved someone that much ?

     This is a dialogue from the movie Good Will Hunting. Pretty hard to ones who are afraid to love people.

You don't know about real loss, because that only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself. I doubt you've ever dared to love anybody that much.


     The want for being loved totally takes over the cautious unconscious behaviour of a person who is afraid to lose a loved one. This unconscious nature unfortunately, has been developed as a result of ones past experiences of ones love being betrayed by dear ones around us, whom we trust more than anything else in life. And this is what happens when people who have fallen for someone suddenly behaves strangely.

     Their unconscious caution mode has be switched on. It is as if the child inside is reminding the heart how so and so left you alone when you were scared. How the hands had beaten you when you expect those hands to pamper you.

     Life for such a heart is such a painful experience.

    And I pray to God that such a heart gets someone who amends the unconscious arena, heal the wounds of the past and let the heart love without caution.

Loving is too hard !

I just came across something which has proved loving is so hard for me.

' for the heart who is too lazy to keep the weed of greed outside his existence, the seed of love cannot survive ' This was said by His Holiness Radhanath Swami.

And so rightly, the emotion requires nurturing too. like the situation i am in these days. it is totally killing the seed 

Third Party

How often does a third person destroy the feelings of love sowed in your heart ?

I interrogate myself with the same question and hence I put forward to you to ponder upon.

 I am facing a situation like this !

My appreciation for a person has drastically deteriorated all because of the rage created by a nut-head third party (TP). It was the anger for the TP which I feel over shadowed the rays of love percolating my emotional sustenance for the whole humanity. I  got angry with everyone I came across and my mental capabilities were  kept busy with ideas of revenge and humiliation for the TP. All my attempts to humiliate it in whichever way possible were falling on deaf ears worsening my helplessness. IT had created a good persona in the public portfolio or at least with the reserves and all my attempts seems like making me a evil minded persona.


With the movements of my fingers on the keyboard I am trying one more time to subdue the anger and bring the intensity of LOVE back in chambers of my heart.


the almost lost seeker ! 


lover of none; always begging for love ! 

Jinxed

Sometimes, I feel I'm totally jinxed !
All my attempts for love seem to end in frustration.

Just decide it !

I would like to bring to your notice that you can fall in love with anyone, it just depends on how pure your conscience is.

Dwell deep into this thought. Take a while, let this thought sink into your thinking lanes.

Do not agree ?

Let me give you an example. Consider a rich man. He can give his money to anyone he decides to pass his richness to. He has to decide. Well that's it. Loving is so simple a transaction. (thought it is much more than just a material transaction)

We just have to decide. That we will LOVE.
And not hate.

So decide that you will LOVE the person you hate. If the person is causing harm to you. We can give a loving reply :)

Pursuit of Higher Happiness

I read an amazing story which i am sharing with all. I don't know how much one can relate to the story as i do.

But as far as i see for myself, i see Pursuit of higher truth and happiness and more importantly Humility.

I will give you readers a little background to the story. Amrit Gopal, the person concerned in the story is a devotee of Krishna who just loves dancing in front of his Lord and weeps in humility.

This much background, is enough to keep the suspense, a suspense. :)
Ameen !

http://www.ariseindiaforum.org/vedic-culture-russia-part-1/

Selfless LOVE

Came across a good quote. Profound. Needs good thinking to understand the gravity of the words spoken.


To the degree we cultivate the spirit of selfless service, to that degree we’ll actually find bliss in life.
- Radhanath Swami

Brings up an argument in my impure mind. What if I'm used by others.

God, He and money.

He : God, do I need money to show love ?
God : No child, you just need love.
He : But God, I see rich people happy and satisfied. Which in turn they reciprocate with others.
God : O child, that is give and take. Love is above these transactions.
He : But God, how can I feel loved if it is not reverted back to me. I don't want to just give love and in turn get back nothing.
God : O Child, real love is unconditional.
He : Then God what is that which I see in the world around me. People are so happy. They give love and they get love. They are even loved when they don't show love. Look at celebrities God, they have so many lovers, they don't even know who they all are.
God : Child, what is that you really want.
He : To be loved.
God : So don't drink from rivulets, seek the ocean.
He : Where is the ocean of love ?
God : In Me. Seek it.

Love stays

Relationships fall apart. Friendships end. Hearts break. But the love doesn't die.

Regret ?

Was it really love if you regret falling in love ?


readers, please leave your comment. 

Make a beginning !

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Maturity ?

Does love require maturity ?
Because if someone is not mature...they would end up in fights..and if they end up in fights and they part away ...do they really love each other ?

Everyone is Hungry.....from their Hearts

This is heart melting, just watch it please.

Radhanath Swami at Harvard University - YouTube:

Mothers LOVE, or I should just say ...Pure Love.

Copy pasted from a article i read, narrated by a Mother.


Linda Sailor.


When my youngest son, Bobby, was diagnosed with autism at the age of three, I remember feeling as if all hope had been taken away from me. He threw violent tantrums, rocked, stimmed, banged his head, and had about a six-word vocabulary. His eye contact was poor and his mental age was about 20 months; physically he'd stalled out at 15 months as far as motor skills went.

I read up on the subject - as best as was available in 1989, and one of the books I came across was Temple's biography. She stated there (as she did in this talk) to take advantage of interests in teaching autistic kids. We'd enrolled Bobby in Early Childhood Special Education by then. He wasn't toilet-trained and tantrumed so often that I know his teacher felt as I did - no hope.

However, we persisted. By the age of three and a half Bobby developed a fascination for spinning objects. Remembering Temple's advice I figured what object spun more than the water in a toilet? I decided to take one week of Easter Vacation and teach him how to use the toilet. Within three days he was dry, by the end of the week he was dry at night and fully trained. We'd used spinning objects (the toilet water) and his fascination with bathrooms to motivate him. Even neuro-normal children generally don't train that quickly!

Just prior to that time his uncle had given him a toy consisting of pictures and a computerized chip that enabled it to state what each object was when touched. Sometimes a sound would accompany the object's name - a cat, for example, would "meow." He was totally fascinated with this toy, although we had no way of knowing if he was simply memorizing the correct answers or if he was actually learning something.

One day we found out. One of the objects was a "red car" and it honked when touched. As it happened I owned a red car. Bobby got out of the car when we got home, turned around, touched it, and said, "red car." Inspired, I reached inside and honked it.


 It was as if switch had been turned on, never to be silenced. His next set of words were "what's this?" and it rang in my ears for months as he kept touching items, demanding to know what they were. By the age of five he spoke in two word sentences; by the age of eight he was staffed out of Special Education and began to show an interest in Math and the weather. At the age of 13 he taught himself Calculus; in middle and secondary schools was in all honors classes.

He's now 24, almost 25. He just passed his PhD qualification exam and will begin work on that next January. His major? Atmospheric Sciences, to go with the obsession of weather and math that he's always had. He's very vocal, affectionate and unless you pay close attention you can't tell he's different. However, he still stims on occasion, usually when playing video games and driving. That's right - driving. His fingers twitch and rub together on one hand, he drives with the other. He has friends, some of them gamers, some geeks like he is, some more "neuro-typical."

As for me, I've come to realize that Bobby comes by it honestly - I am a self-diagnosed woman with Asperger's Syndrome. I fit all the criteria, including social awkwardness, poor eye contact, and fixations, among other things. I am a visual thinker - as Temple pointed out, she thought that everyone thought in pictures!


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this shows just pure eagerness to help someone out of love. was amazed to how far the intelligence could go in helping someone out.

Once Loved, Needs Love

When you once taste the sweetness of love....you keep longing for the same.

And when you loose the touch of that pure love.....there is always some vacant feeling in the heart !

Our Guide

I read an interesting quote today, and it would take a lifetime for me to realize its depth.

Let me caution you before you read it. It might occupy your comtemplative capabilities for a lifetime !

 "Let Love be our guide"